A Family Day & Maramma Jatre
A Family Day, Funfair, and Simple Joys-Ordinary Turns Beautiful
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A Family Day & Maramma Jatre
A Simple Saturday Morning of Togetherness
The day began at 6:00 AM – a rare, calm morning where neither my husband nor daughter had school or office. That itself felt like a blessing! We began our day with a cup of streaming filter coffee, sharing light-hearted conversations that set the perfect tone for the day. There is something magical about mornings when everyone is relaxed – no rush, no alarms, no deadlines, just laughter and aroma of fresh coffee filling the air.
A Family Day, Funfair, and Simple Joys-Ordinary Turns Beautiful
Our darling daughters woke up soon, full of energy and ready to explore the new day. My younger one got busy with her slime, while I helped my elder daughter prepare for her online science test and the upcoming Science Olympiad scheduled for Monday. Teaching her and watching her curiosity grow always fills me with satisfaction – motherhood is indeed a journey of rediscovering patience and love every single day.
Breakfast Bliss – The Beloved Poha
Breakfast that day was made by my husband – a beautiful plate of Poha, a light yet satisfying dish cherished across South India, Maharashtra, Karnataka, and Andhra Pradesh. Known by different names like Kandha Poha, Avalakki, or Atukula Upma, it’s more than a recipe – it’s comfort food wrapped in nostalgia.
If you’ve never tried it, here’s our family-style Poha recipe:
- Rinse flattened rice (poha) lightly and keep aside.
- In a pan, heat oil, add mustard seeds, curry leaves, and green chillies.
- Toss in chopped onions, a pinch of turmeric, and salt.
- Peanuts are optional here.
- Add the poha and mix gently.
- Garnish with coriander, lemon juice, and some freshly chopped onions in case you want Kandha Poha.
Simple yet divine – that’s the magic of Indian breakfasts!
Shop, Study and a Little Bit of Devotion
After breakfast me and my elder one headed to our shop. As always, I began by cleaning the space and lighting the diya (lamp) – a small ritual that connects me to the divine energy of Lord Ganesha and Maa Lakshmi, this keeps the place positive. While I organized things, my daughter continued her preparation for the science test.
Afternoons are often quiet, and by lunchtime, we were ready for a break. None of us had the energy to cook, so we decided to step out for a hearty South Indian lunch.
A Hearty Lunch and Family Conversations
We found a cozy restaurant near by and ordered our favourites – Masala Dosa, Rava Idli, South Indian Meals, and Onion Dosa. Though my dish didn’t turn out as I expected, I still finished it with gratitude – after all, wasting food never feels right. Sometimes it’s not about the flavor, but about the time we spend together that truly satisfies the soul.
We returned home, the kids started playing while I dozed off for a quick 10-minute bean bag nap. My husband got back to his work calls, and the house buzzed with gentle chaos – laughter, typing sounds, and the smell of coffee brewing again.
Evening Calm and Waiting at the Shop
Evenings bring their own rhythm. After our coffee, I returned to the shop to attend to my client – a sweet 9-year-old girl. Helping her brought me so much joy; I love working with children because their innocence reminds me why I chose this path.
But soon after, the place fell silent. No more clients walked in. I waited until 9:0 PM, and finally decided to close for the day. By the time I pulled down the shutter, it was 9:45 PM. The roads were crowded because of the Maramma Jatre – a grand festival and funfair happening near our home.
The Divine Maramma Jatre
The Maramma Jatre is a 3-day festival that fills our neighbourhood with lights, sounds, and devotion. Thousands of people gather together to celebrate Goddess Maramma, believed to be an avatar of Maa Parvati, the embodiment of divine feminine energy.
Maramma represents the power to protect, heal, and destroy evil – a fierce yet motherly form of Shakti. The sight of devotees singing, dancing, and offering prayers is beyond words. It’s an experience that makes you feel small in front of divine power yet deeply connected to it.
Late-Night Fun and Childlike Joy
When I reached home, my kids were already bubbling with excitement, ready to visit the funfair. Though it was already 10:20 PM, we decided to go since it was just a minute away. The atmosphere was electric – bright lights, colourful music, cheerful music, aroma of roasted corn and cotton candy, and smiling faces everywhere.
We rode the toy train, played ring and ball games, and laughed endlessly. I must confess – I’m a little scared of these rides, but watching my kids enjoy made it all worth it. Sometimes courage means smiling through fear just to see your children’s happiness.
The kids also played with toy cars, won prizes, and insisted on buying a LED writing tab. On our way back, they spotted a small vendor selling Pepe wind instruments – loud, funny, and loved by every child. I used my bargaining skills here, and luckily the seller reduced the price since she didn’t have change to return.
We stood there for a few minutes, letting them enjoy the sound – because once home, it would be too late and the neighbours asleep. Their laughter echoed under the moonlight – that sound alone made the whole day worth living.
The Night Ends with Gratitude
By midnight, we were finally home. My husband and I had dinner together while the girls played for a while longer. Soon we had to gently convince (and then firmly insist!) them to sleep.
As I tucked them into bed, my mind reflected on the day – a simple day with ups and downs, only one client at the shop, tired feet, a few missteps, but hearts full of joy. Watching my kids sleep peacefully after such a happy night filled me with gratitude.
Sometimes, happiness isn’t grand plans or achievements. It’s in sharing coffee with your partner, watching your children laugh, tasting imperfect food with a full heart, and ending the day with divine blessings nearby.
Reflections
Life doesn’t always go as planned. Some days are busy, others quiet. But every day offers small miracles – if only we pause long enough to notice them.
From morning coffee to Maramma Jatre lights, from a single client to children’s laughter – this day was a gentle reminder that joy is never missing; we just need to see it differently.